Are you a woman? Is it a crime? Do you face alot of difficulties when you are alone? Does it really matter what are you wearing?
“WE MUST MAKE OUR WOMEN SAFE AND SECURE”
Why is it so difficult to understand these two lines?
It is not a matter of rape alone, but about respect that is given to a woman in a society. In each and every sphere women are never considered equal in any society not just Indian society. Yes, all women are made for all house work, and specially cooking is in built in them but when it comes to professional cooking (chefs), then men are much better in cooking because BEING A CHEF IS A PROFESSION.
Do you know that “respect for women” varies according to the thinking of people living in a particular state. It is never same in a country. i.e Incidents of women and violence against them will be more in small cities as compared to those high industrialized cities.
DONT YOU THINK THAT RESPECT AND SECURITY FOR WOMEN SHOULD BE CONSIDERED AS BASIC NECESSSITY FOR ALL WOMEN?
It is not just about serious crime like rape or physical harm, but men’s views on women need to be changed. The way men take women as their own property needs to be changed. All men who think that they are giving basic necessities to their wife needs to be changed. All men who don’t treat their wife with respect because they are house wife needs to be changed.
Hello, she is taking care of your both house, parents, children and everything that was yours and now belongs to HER also. It hardly matters if she is a house wife or working, it should be her choice what she wants to do, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS TREAT HER WITH RESPECT.
Let’s not talk about men only. Let’s talk about children. Have you ever seen a child shouting on his/her father? But you should have seen a child shouting on her mother, WHY?
We as a part of developing nations needs to change our thinking. WOMEN ARE NOT A THING. Let her live her life in her own way. Stop controlling her. She actually knows what she is doing. Men and Women have same size of brain. Stop staring at her just because she is looking good. She is not your property. If she is wearing a dress or a cut sleeves top then, why do you need to constantly stare at her legs or arms? Yes, it will be much more better than you, but you don’t have any right to do that.
As a women, I’ll say don’t protect her, we as a women can take care of ourselves. Don’t look after her, just remove your eyes from us. It will be much more better, actually IT WILL BE MUCH MORE HELPFUL.