A man sexually accused by woman…..
How does this sound?? Definitely you must be shocked and stunned. Here I would like to share one movie named ‘Aitraz’ of three Bollywood divas Akshay Kumar,Kareena Kapoor and Priyanka Chopra. It is a romantic thriller movie produced by Subhash Ghai and directed by Abbas- Mustan. It tells the story of a man accused of sexual harassment by his female superior. But no one believed him. Why ? Because of stupid reason that how a male can be sexually accused by a female. Now just think for a sec and ask yourself
A GIRL RAPED BY HER BOYFRIEND..
Is this always true?? No,its not always true. It’s just our mentality that has made it true without thinking anything for even once that maybe that girl is guilty and the boy is innocent. But we always think that a girl is always true. How can such a thing be done by a female. Why? Just because she is a girl. The law has given such powers to women so that they can protect themselves or get justice. But they are not using the powers rather they are misusing them.
Moreover men are socialized not to express their feelings or see themselves as victims. Our culture, society still clings to the narrow definations of gender. Young boys are taught not to express their emotions,” to suck it up” and to be a ‘man’. Men may feel discouraged to talk about what’s going on in their personal lives or they feel like no one will believe them.
The majority of stories covered by the media about sexually assaulted are about mame perpetrators and female victims who are typically in heterosexual relationships . When a man is abused many people don’t take it seriously. The truth is, abuse is not a joke in any situation, between any two people. All victims whether a man or a woman deserve support and resources to help them feel safe.
There are many men who actually harass,accuse or rape women. This fact is not denied. What I want to say is that all men are not enemies, many of them are victims too. Before giving punishment just think or just investigate for once whether that guy is really a guilty? Just because he is a male he cannot be accused each and every time. Do think about this once.