I believe if you want ‘pink’, you should be capable to own ‘pink’. Let me clarify this context, it means, if you want others to love you, you should first love yourself. Also, you guessed that right, pink is my current favourite colour. But coming back to self-love, it is mandatory to keep yourself a priority because everyone is not going to do that. It’s not being egocentric to prioritize yourself but it is just the way you lead people to treat you.
We talk here about five ways in which you can fall in love with yourself every single day.
1. BE NARCISSIST AND NOT OBSESSED
Okay, being self-obsessed is not bad but being a narcissist is kind of positive to me. You should love everything about yourself be it your weaknesses, your carelessness, your strength, your ego, and everything. Just fall in love with yourself in the same way you imagine your Prince Charming to do. Look at yourself in front of the mirror as you look at your favourite food, even more zealously than that. Being in love with yourself sets a benchmark for others to do that.
2. EMBRACE AND ACCEPT YOUR FLAWS
Nobody in the entire world is perfect. Talking physically, everyone has flaws which are somehow hidden with the filters and cosmetics. No one is happy with themselves, entirely. So, you are not the only one who is sighing over the mere stammering issues or being worried about having a dusky skin or whatever. Just keep your heads and confidence high and embrace your each flaw like a Boss. Just own your flaws and people will not have the balls to sham you for whatsoever reasons. Keep your head high always.
3. PRIORITISE YOURSELF AND BE SPOKEN
There are may be many instances in your life when you must not have kept yourself as a priority. I agree, that it is always not related to a sad story and you should not always ‘fight for your rights’ (uselessly, of course). But do not always keep shut when things are purposely not turned in your favour. Be spoken if you need to, against anyone. Do not settle for anything less if you deserve the world.
4. PAMPER AND SPOIL YOUR SELF
The woman who needs someone to pamper her is the weakest of all. Do not be dependent on anyone for your happiness. It’s not always about money but also about your wishes. You are no less if you are a housewife and do not earn a penny. You do far more things for free so you totally deserve your man’s money without being answerable to him. Just go on, pamper yourself and keep yourself happy. I know, women are smart enough to know that saving leads to a bigger craving and hence you also know the importance to save.
Same thing goes for men, do take out time for yourselves and treat yourself well.
5. CHASE AND ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS
One thing which I would like to tell everyone out there is to have the audacity to chase your dreams. No matter how crazy your dreams are, just give them a chance to evolve. Everyone has certain dreams and wishes that he wants to fulfill them, hence keep working for that. Do not worry about the destination but enjoy the journey and these miles will make you fall for yourself even more. You will be proud of yourself and this will make your love you even more.
These were some of the peerless ways to love yourself and own the entire pink of the world. It may be contradictory for some of you and sleazy for most of you but deep down your heart, you know this is worth it. Love yourself before anyone, not in a selfish or an uncaring way but be so happy with yourself that your radiate positive vibes.