Have you ever been in love? If yes, then you might be able to relate to this post. Love is a beautiful feeling; until someone breaks your heart. Have you ever felt that your life was just miserable and you feel incomplete and empty? This often happens after a heartbreak or a serious break up. Life feels totally meaningless and you just can’t figure out what to do. Your friends are constantly telling you to move on but you just wanna tell them that its not gonna happen.
Is it? After a break up, most people usually think that this is the ultimatum of their life and they’ll never be able to move on and life will continue to be miserable. But heartbreaks are important. People do move on in life, someday or the other. Heartbreaks teach us to love ourselves. They give us the strength to pull ourselves back up when we have fallen deep down under and there is no hope of coming up. They make us strong and give us the will power to move ahead in life.
Its difficult leading a life without that one person on whom you have been so much dependent all this time. you know that you wont be talking to that person anymore, or meeting him; the bad memories stab you in heart but the good memories stab harder, making you feel that they will never come back. But once you are done with that person, you will slowly start realizing ‘your’ importance. You will start making those efforts for yourself, which previously were meant for someone else but everything went in vain. You start focusing on your lives, despite the fact that you feel completely lonely and vulnerable. There will be times when you’ll miss that person like hell but you will develop that self control which will teach you to let go.