The only thing that defines us as humans is how we make mistakes and consider it as our top priority in our life before we actually realize its potential to ruin our life. It’s good and healthy to make mistakes. Especially when it comes to relationships. Yes, you heard me right! Relationship is the only real life entity where you can ameliorate yourself even after getting your heart broken. You can rise just like the Phoenix from its own ashes.
It’s great if you are in a relationship. But these following points will make you question yourself whether that guy is really worth your attention ?
1.) He never lets you know even a little bit about his personal life.
He won’t tell you much about his parents, friends, hobbies and many more things. You don’t know much about his whereabouts even on social media profiles. He is a complete ghost when he is not around you until you don’t show some skin!
2.) He only thinks about you during the middle of the night.
I don’t need to tell you about what really happens to human mind after 11 PM. Hormones kick in and some guys start thinking from their ‘di*k’. And this will be the only time when he will consider you worth calling late at night.
3.) He doesn’t want people to know about your ‘so called’ relationship with him.
He might say that he doesn’t like to showcase his love for you in front of the whole world, but it shouldn’t stop him from introducing you to his friends and family. Unless he has some other plans. He always makes sure to return back your things once you are done with him in his place so that no one gets to know about you in anyway.
4.) He has never appreciated your nature and cuteness but applauded your figure and sexiness.
It was never you but your body that appealed to him the most. Your good nature and care for him are not on his priority list but how well you communicate with him during his sex chat fantasies are for sure to be at the top of his priority list.
5.) You both have different definitions of a ‘Perfect Date’.
For him, it’s just 4 hours of time with you in one of his friend’s apartment where you guys can do it. Movie, outings, lunch and late night dinners are not his way to make you feel special. There is always less emotion and more sex or let’s just call it LUST.
6.) He is never there for you when you need him the most.
There are times when you feel low, depressed and all that you need is just some compassion and love from the person who you thought would be the only one for you. But apparently, he is just way too ‘busy’ for your and considers your feelings with the ‘Is_it_that_time_of_the_month’ kind of thing.
7.) He always tries to direct your conversation to a sex-related topic.
It doesn’t matter how hard you try to talk some serious matter with him, he always turns it into a sexually oriented topic.